Wednesday, November 27, 2013

And the Battle Continues

Last week I wrote about my struggle with the pumping process and how to fit it into my daily life. Since then I’ve put myself on a very regimented schedule where I am pumping every three hours regardless of whether I’m at work or not. My pump goes everywhere with me!

The battle this week has not been fitting in my pumping sessions, but how much I’m producing each pump. I have watched for the last seven days as my supply has decreased fairly significantly. As I mentioned last week, L is now drinking 5oz bottles every 3.5 hours, so I truly need to be pumping a minimum of 25oz a day to meet his needs and continue to stash one bottle a day. Unfortunately this has become an almost impossible task. My morning pumps that used to yield anywhere from 8-10oz are now just barely hitting 6oz and those afternoon sessions are topping out at 2oz. I keep trying to remind myself that “every ounce counts,” but when those ounces don’t even add up to one full bottle it truly feels like a waste of time. I have found myself questioning whether I should either a) just give up or b) start supplementing formula in his daycare bottles … neither of which I truly want to do at this point.
L is only 12 weeks old tomorrow and in my heart I’m not quite ready to give up, but what more can I do? Well, let me tell you! If you ask the right people, the right questions you will be amazed at what you find out!

I recently joined a pumping support group on Facebook and it has been wonderful. It’s nice to know I’m not the only mommy out there going through these struggles. I mean I know I’m not but to be able to actually talk to other women that are is comforting. At first I was just a lurker, not participating in the discussion, just reading about others experiences and the types of things they did to get through it. I couldn’t believe the success some of them had with pumping – one woman has 1500oz in her freezer! Yes you read that correctly, one thousand five hundred ounces!! To say I’m jealous is an understatement. The difference is however, many of these women pump around the clock. They are waking two and three times a night to pump. I can’t make that commitment, and perhaps those makes me lazy or a bad mother, but remember I am getting up two and three times a night to breastfeed so adding in another 15-20 minutes of pumping on top of that would result in me never sleeping!
After being on the board for a few days I decided to post my first question. I asked the ladies two things: what is and how to know when you’re having a ‘let-down’ and how to increase my supply. The answers varied but a ‘let-down’ is basically when your boobies tell you “hey it’s time to express this milk” (http://www.breastmilkcounts.com/let-down-reflex.php). It was a sensation I’d felt many times but wasn’t sure what it was. Now I am able to listen to my body and know when it’s time to pump. Amazingly, I typically feel a ‘let-down’ coming on every 3.5 hours, right when the nugget should be eating!

The second question solicited so many different and varied responses. Water was of course the number one answer – basically drown yourself in water every day. The second most popular answer was oatmeal. I’ve already adopted both of these into my routine so I began looking at alternative answers.
After reading through what the women suggested and doing some back research of my own I have chosen to try the following:

1)  Fenugreek: The capsules I purchased are 610mg per and according to the label should be taken 2-3 times daily. This aligned with the women as they all said you need to take about 2,000mg a day to see a change.

2)  Mother’s Milk Tea: I have never been a tea drinker and after hearing what the ladies said about this particular kind I’m sure I’ll never be a tea drinker after either. According to what they all said this tea is “gross” and they have to chug it just to finish it. But many of them said they saw a significant increase in their supply.

3)  Lactation Cookies: What woman doesn’t love a good cookie? From the looks of the recipe it is basically an oatmeal chocolate chip cookie made with flaxseed & Brewer’s Yeast. I haven’t made them yet, but they are on the docket for this weekend.
 
For the next week I am going to document the exact amounts and times of my pumping sessions to see if there is any impact on my supply. If at the end of the week I do not see a noticeable change I will have to readdress my plans for future pumping/breastfeeding.  I do not even want to think about supplementing until L is at least 6 months old so I am praying that this works!

Keep your fingers crossed for me and in the meantime…


HAPPY THANKSGIVING

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